Why must we obey and respect our parents?

Allah says “And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], "uff," and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word.” [Al-Quran 17: 23]

Remember..

Look how big you are now..22 years old young lady

How tall you are..156cm taller than your mother

Now, you even can wear your mother's clothes, shoes..and it suits you well

Back then, mother always bought an extra bigger size clothes and shoes so you could wear it for a longer time..

Mother said, you grown up so fast..i couldn't measure your right size..

I'm afraid it wouldn't fits you later on...

Look how big you are now..you dare talked back at your mother..

When you were still a kid, your mother scold you because you were wrong..

Today, you scold your mother & father out of nothing..you have an Ego in yourself..

Just because you think you are smarter than them..have you forget?? 

Who's effort was that which contributed to your success?? Forgotten do you?

It's them who sent you to U to make you smart..

With their sweats n tears they brought you up..

Look how big you are now..ignores your father thoughts..

Remember that old and harsh hands made a ponytail for your hair..

He persuaded you not to cut your hair..remember..

He who bought you bicycle and scooter when you were small..

'Kakak! See what I bought for you..I've bought it with a good price..play well with your brother ok.'

Father was so happy watching his daughter playing with joy..

Remember now do you? You should obey and respect your parents! And the most important is PRAY !

Yes pray!

A Child should pray for their parents, as Allah teaches us in the verse (which means) "…My Lord and Sustainer! Be kind and have mercy on them as they cherished, nurtured and sustained me in childhood.” [Quran 17: 24]

Last but not least a hadith which shows Prophet Muhammad teaches us to place kindness and respect towards parents and the prayer offered on time as prayer is the foundation of Islam.

 ‘Abdullaah Ibn Mas’ood (RA) said: “I asked the Prophet (PBUH) which deed is most liked by Allah? He (PBUH) said: ‘Prayer offered on time.’ I asked him: ‘Then what? He (PBUH) said: ‘Kindness and respect towards parents.’…” [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim]

Love Allah swt, Love Prophet Muhammad saw and Love your parents :)

Be a good Muslimah thoroughly not partially...pray for Istiqamah fisabilillah. InsyaAllah

Segala pujian bagi Allah Tuhan semesta alam. Selawat dan salam  kepada junjungan Rasul dan kepada keluarganya dan para sahabat sekalian. Ya Allah, apa yang telah kami lakukan sepanjang tahun ini dari apa yang Engkau larang kami daripadanya, maka tidak sempat kami bertaubat darinya dan Engkau tidak meredhainya dan tidak Engkau melupainya dan Engkau berlemah lembut kepada kami walaupun Engkau memberi peluang supaya kami bertaubat setelah kami melakukan maksiat kepada Engkau, maka sesungguhnya kami memohon keampunan Engkau, maka ampunilah kami. Apa yang kami lakukan padanya dari apa yang Engkau redhainya dan Engkau telah menjanjikan kami ganjaran pahala keatasnya, maka kami memohon akan Dikau wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Mulia yang mempunyai kebesaran dan kemuliaan semoga Engkau menerima kami dan janganlah Engkau memutuskan harapan kami dari kurnia Engkau wahai Tuhan Yang Mulia. Moga-moga Allah S.W.T mencucuri rahmat dan sejahtera kepada junjungan kami Nabi Muhammad, ahli keluarga dan sahabat-sahabat sekalian. Segala pujian bagi Allah, Tuhan sekalian alam.

Segala pujian bagi Allah Tuhan semesta alam. Selawat dan salam kepada junjungan Rasul dan kepada keluarganya dan para sahabat sekalian. Ya Allah, Engkaulah Yang Kekal, Qadim lagi azali dan di atas kelebihan Engkau Yang Besar dan kemurahan-Mu yang melimpah dan ini adalah tahun baru yang sesungguhnya telah mendatangi kami, kami memohon kepada Engkau pemeliharaan padanya daripada syaitan yang direjam, pembantu-pembantunya dan tentera-tenteranya dan kami memohon pertolongan dari nafsu yang banyak mendorong kepada kejahatan dan kami memohon kepada-Mu untuk melakukan sebarang pekerjaan yang boleh mendekatkan diri kami kepada-Mu. Ya Allah, Tuhan yang merubah segala keadaan, ubahlah keadaan kami kepada sebaik-baik keadaan dengan kekuasaan dan kurnian-Mu wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang. Moga-moga Allah S.W.T mencucuri rahmat dan sejahtera kepada junjungan kami Nabi Muhammad, ahli keluarga dan sahabat-sahabat sekalian. Segala puji bagi Allah, Tuhan sekalian alam. Semoga Allah menerima doa kita semua.

* Doa dipetik dari: Surah Yasin, Tahlil dan Doa, Terbitan Abad Sinergi Sdn Bhd, Cetakkan Kedua Disember 2009